I had my lame ultrasound today.

I had a nice full bladder, which btw is very much uncomfortable especially having to go by bus and walk in the heat which took two hours to get there and then I had to wait to see the doctor. So I get into the room and I lay down and at first the tech lady mentions if Niki fuses I will have to reschedule so I’m crossing fingers he’s quiet which he was. Okay so she asks if I would like to know the gender and I say yes.

She says it’s a girl and I am so happy and she says yes it’s a defendant little girl, I can see the three little lines. I would guess 100 percent a little girl and so I get even more excited and then she says. Let me make sure again and then after fifteen long minutes of waiting she tells me, its a defendant boy? and takes a picture of its thingy to show me. Pretty big penis i think for the baby only being 1 pound 3 ounces but um okay?

I found that the placenta is in front so that’s why I haven’t felt the movement much.

So.. yea I am very upset because the lady got my hopes up and led me to believe I was having a little girl and then she takes it all back?

It was so very cruel of her.

I am very upset with how the ultrasound went. very upset.

Here are the pictures.

So I guess it’s another boy, sigh. Kinda disappointed it wouldn’t have been that disappointing had the lady told me straight off the bat it was a defendant boy but she said girl and was certain of it and then boom it’s not?

I don’t understand that. So very cruel.

And how does she know it’s not just the umbilicol cord she took a picture of when the baby is folded up with it’s legs over it’s head? I don’t even know what to think, I’m just really upset with how the tech was with me.

Then after going through all that I had to go back on the bus which was full and there were no seats so I had to stand up and my back was hurting and no one got up for me. I left the house at 12 and I got home at 5 in the evening. I had a major headache from the heat and was upset and still am from the horrible tech lady and her giving me hopes it was a little girl finally and shooting them down. I am not sure how she can go from a 100 percent girl to it then being a boy? They told my sister she was having a boy for sure and out came a little girl. I don’t know how tech’s can mistake gender, they look at everything else closely. Why can’t they see cord from penis? or whatever.

What do you think? could it be a cord?